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Tips for Creating a Joy Filled Life                                        
www.dennystockdale.com and www.stockdaleresourcegroup.com                                    June 2011

 

C.A.R.E.
Create A Refreshing Environment
 
It's that time of year when many people look forward to throwing open their windows and inviting spring inside. Gardens are being planted, lawns have turned from the pale of winter to an energizing green and, in general, people seem brighter and more joyful.
This is also a traditional time for deep spring cleaning. While we tend to think of spring cleaning in terms of our offices and homes - our external physical environment - this year I'd like you to think about your internal, personal environment. There is more than one way to do a spring cleaning, and this is what we'll explore in this month's newsletter.
External Environment - Your lifestyle

 

Just like having too much stuff in a room makes it crowded and hard to move around in, having an excess of activities can make life less pleasurable and more difficult. Work, school, kids' activities, volunteering, friends, hobbies, exercise, church and so many more demands are placed on our time. In a very real sense this excess can limit one's personal freedom.

It's all too easy in today's fast-paced world to become a human doing rather than a human being. When I'm rushing from one spot to another, or one e-mail to another, I begin to feel closed-in and claustrophobic. Too much of anything can actually restrict life rather than expand it.
Tips:
  • Make a list of activities you currently do or are involved with, then prioritize the list based on what is important to you (not necessarily to others).
  • Identify which activities excite and/or energize you.
  • Identify those activities that drain or drag you down.
  • Become more strategic about what you say "yes" to. Consider the ramifications of participation before committing. 

I recently heard the phrase that "those who are successful say no, while those who are very successful say no .... A lot." 

I couldn't agree more.

Internal Environment - Your thoughts & emotions

 

Is mental clutter getting in your way? Are there habits that have built up over time that no longer serve you? Most people are very aware of their external environment, but what about one's internal environment? While our external environments tend to take up most of our time and attention, our internal environments - our hopes, dreams, fears, feelings - sorely need and deserve our attention. Yet the internal is easy to ignore when so many externals clamor for our attention. Nonetheless, you can make this year different by expanding your attention to include what's going on inside you.
Think about the stories and dreams you've kept hidden, then ask yourself why these parts of you are kept in the shadows. Just as you open your home's windows to let the fresh air in, opening your heart and mind allows both mental and emotional clutter to escape while simultaneously allowing others into your life.
Tips:
  • Devote 10 minutes a day during the next few weeks to work on your internal spring cleaning list. Is something troubling you? Are you feeling overwhelmed? Are you following your dreams? This exercise will help you clarify the hidden parts.
  • Ask yourself how your thinking and behavior serves you. Does something need to change?

My desire for you is that you'll start living more from the inside out by identifying your true thoughts, feelings and desires. This personal authentication process does require some soul searching, but results in greater happiness and a more fully realized life... yours!

 

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In This Issue
C.A.R.E.
Your Lifestyle
Your Thoughts & Emotions
Referral Program
Dream Makers Circle
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Best wishes,

Denny Stockdale                    

 

Denny Stockdale, President
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