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Tips for Creating a Joy Filled
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H.E.L.P.
Happily Empowering
Lovable People
This
has been a tough month for me. My wonderful cocker
spaniel, Bailey, passed away peacefully on April
13th lying under a tree in our backyard. He'd been
with my family for nearly 14 years and was one of
my best friends. Dog lovers will understand this.
So
how does this bit of sad news tie-in with this
month's topic of HELP? Dogs - and pets in general
- bring much love to the families who take care of
them. In Bailey's case, his love was nearly
unconditional.
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Bailey,
faithful companion & teacher
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When
I'd be in less than an ideal mood, he didn't care.
He'd sit at my feet and happily let me pet him;
his simple presence helping me to calm down. Like
the best human listeners, Bailey didn't have to
say anything - he just had to be present. Unlike
people, dogs seem to have an ability to
effortlessly be in the moment, fully present. In
relating to others, people often try to come up
with solutions rather than really listening and
hearing what's being expressed, verbally and
nonverbally. As a coach and trainer, I am full of
ideas which I love to share. However, I have
learned that sometimes what is really needed is to
simply sit back and listen to and receive
another's story in order to connect with the
person and soul behind
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Ten Life
Lessons from Bailey
Over
the years, Bailey taught me some important
lessons. By incorporating these lessons into my
own life, I not only empower myself, but I help to
empower others to live healthy, happy and
satisfying lives.
- Always be kind to
others. Bailey wasn't an
aggressive dog and was open to both new people
and other animals. The lesson? Only bark when
dinner is late or when in danger!
- Make friends
wherever you go (you never
know when you might get a bonus treat from a
stranger!)
- Listen and be
present when others have a
story they need to tell. Often all someone needs
is to know they are not alone.
- Take life
lightly. Go for walks, nap
when you need to, spend time in the sunshine and
find time to play!
- Love others
unconditionally. Fully
accepting another person right where they are,
as they are, is what unconditional love is all
about. Dogs can teach people a lot in this
regard.
- Chase things that
are interesting to you and
accept treats (but not too many!)
- Be
patient. Often, when I'd
wake up in the morning, Bailey would already be
up. Many mornings he was probably anxious to go
outside. Yet, he'd be patient and not bother me
until I was ready to let him out.
- Accept
help. As Bailey was
getting ready to leave this earth, he had a
couple of accidents. That wasn't his usual
nature, and it was obvious to us that he felt
he'd done something wrong. But we cleaned him up
and reassured him with pats and hugs that all
was well. At some point we all need a helping
hand.
- Say
thanks. Bailey thanked us
every day for taking good and loving care of him
by returning that love to us ten-fold.
- When it's time to
go, leave peacefully.
Bailey passed away as he lived. Gently and
with grace. Over the past year, there were a
couple of other times we thought Bailey was
ready to go, but he surprised us and hung in
there. Every day Bailey was on earth was a gift
to our family. His friendship was steadfast and
his love and loyalty to us never wavered. And
when it was time, he simply rested under that
tree and closed his eyes.
This
little bundle of love left this earth, but not my
heart. Bailey will stay there
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Workshop
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Inspirational Writer in
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An 8 week course - Starts
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In this interactive workshop, you'll
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Garland Lane North, Maple Grove, MN.
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June
14, 2011
7:00 p.m.
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Denny
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