Conversations from...
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Tips for Creating a Joy Filled Life May 2010
cardinalAs I sat in my back yard this weekend, the sun was shining and the cardinals were chirping in the background. I took a deep breath and smiled. While I'm happy most days throughout the year, there's something particularly happy-making about springtime. Here in Minnesota, the winters can be long and the days short.
 
The world seems fresh and exciting. People have smiles and we are getting plenty of sunshine. One of the biggest events of spring is our first trip to the local ice cream parlor. Usually, it's full of people and has a variety of new and old ice cream flavors. The refreshing taste of a spoonful of ice cream is a delight.
 
With all this in mind, this months' newsletter has some tips to help you create and find happy times in your own life.
H.A.P.P.Y.
Humor And Play Power You
 
One of my fellow collaborators on a couple of projects recently went through laughter yoga training. Shortly after she completed her training, we were on a conference call. At the end, we shared a few moments of laughter. I could feel tension melting away. The rest of the day, my mood was even lighter and more joy filled than usual. And that's saying a lot.

Later that day, I saw one of my Acronyms featured in the May issue of Guide Posts, a national publication with a readership of nearly 7 million people.  I was so excited that I couldn't wait to tell my wife. So I called the hectic garden center where she works and shared the news with her.

I find, even on some of the more challenging days, if I take a moment to laugh and play my day goes better and I'm happier about life.
Following are a few tips, in hopes you will create and enjoy many HAPPY moments of your own!
Happiness Tips
  1. Hang around happy people. I'm a big believer that who we hang around with will lift us up or drag us down. Spend time with people who are happy and who you enjoy being with.
  2. Think Solutions. A lot of people, myself included, get into a funk and look at the problems. We start thinking about the problem and focusing on that. The path to happiness lies in creating solutions, not problems. When we encounter a problem, there are solutions. Sometimes we need to talk this out with a caring individual who accepts us for who we are and believes in our dreams.
  3. Date yourself. Yep. Take yourself out for something special. When you are overwhelmed with circumstances or overloaded with work, treat yourself a whole lot kinder. Some of my favorite treats are ice cream, massages, and alone time in nature for renewal.
  4. eating ice cream coneEat Ice Cream. Okay, if you're on a weight loss program this might not be the best tip. But there is something about a good scoop of ice cream to lift your mood. Just don't overdo it. 
 
 
More Tips  
For more tips on creating HAPPY moments and to share your own ideas, click here!
 
Coming up in the next newsletter:
  
  C.H.O.I.C.E.  
Creating Habits Only I Can Embrace
 
Until next month,  

Denny Stockdale

Denny Stockdale, President
Stockdale Resource Group
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Professional coach, author, motivational speaker and president of the Minnesota-based personal development consulting company Stockdale Resource Group, Denny Stockdale works with mid-career professionals to reconnect with lost dreams, achieve work-life balance and discover their own unique callings.

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