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Tips for Creating a Joy Filled Life April 2010
Achieving Your Life's Vision
Valuable Insights Seeking Inspirational Opportunities Now 
by Denny Stockdale
 
In last month's issue of this newsletter, I talked about the importance of looking beyond what is into what could be...the importance of having a personal vision. A personal vision is important because it lends purpose and meaning to your life and provides a direction in which to head. A personal vision establishes what you value most and how you can best be of service to yourself and others.
 
VisionThis month, let's talk about what steps you can begin to take now to achieve your personal vision, as well as discuss the stumbling blocks that could potentially interfere with your progress.
What makes this process so difficult?
 
Beliefs:
 
I believe that I was taught to suppress my own wants and desires.  That makes it difficult to think about my own vision becoming a reality. As I've been traveling around the country, I've found that people think they have lost their dreams. What I've discovered is they've lost the belief they can make their vision come true.
 
Our school system rewards those who conform to the educational standards that our society sets.  However, when I was growing up in school, I did not value the strict standards and structure of the education system.  I was curious and had questions; however, some of the questions were not in line with the topic being taught, so I learned not to ask questions.  I also didn't always understand how rote learning would benefit my dream life. I learned to keep my vision and dreams hidden.
 
Too Many Options:

Too Many OptionsA friend of mine, whom I'll call Sam, is extremely talented. Recently, I was in a study group with him and someone pointed out that life for Sam is like "Let's Make A Deal," except that instead of 3 doors to choose from there are 17 doors, and each one holds a winner.  With so many choices, Sam has had trouble choosing which door to open and what to do next with his talents. Instead of focusing on one vision, Sam continues to struggle with creating a powerful vision for his extremely talented life.
 
Perhaps you're faced with many options as well?  The following vision exercise can help you choose one thing to pursue and then, once that race has been run, you can choose another door to open!  
What can you do to achieve your vision?
  1. Once you've established a vision for what you want to accomplish, don't keep it a secret! Share your vision with others.
  2. Review your vision at least once a week.
  3. Set GoalsTake action.
  4. Find someone to share your progress and success with. 
  5. Find someone who will encourage you to move forward if you run into obstacles. 
Find YOUR Calling
 
Stockdale Resource Group (SRG) is currently accepting new clients for the coaching, speaking and workshop side of its growing consulting business.  
 
Success or FailureIf you or someone you know wants to break through to achieve bigger things, SRG offers highly personalized support and unlimited encouragement to help you rediscover your own lost dreams and find what life's calling you to do and be!
 
If you refer someone to us, we'll send you a free set of our latest product - 4 Acronym Bookmarks. (DREAMS, FAITH, HOPE, LOVE) as our way of saying THANKS. FMI, email info@stockdaleresourcegroup.com.
 
 
Coming up in the next newsletter:
  
 
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Until next month,

Denny Stockdale

 Denny Stockdale, Stockdale Resource Group
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